How to Get the Best Massage

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~Stephanie 
 

By Susannah Felts
From Health magazine

Massage isn’t just a me-time indulgence. Studies show it reduces stress, boosts immunity, and relieves pain from everyday wear and tear. And in tough times, just 30 minutes on the table (or even 10 minutes in a chair) can go a long way toward working out your kinks—as long as you make sure your needs are met. Here’s how to get your money’s worth.

Find the right therapist
Just as you would with an MD, select a certified massage therapist who meets your specific needs, whether you’re looking to soothe post­mara­thon aches or relieve a stiff neck. General certification in Swedish massage—long, sweeping strokes over the entire body—fits the bill when you’re simply looking to relax. (Swedish is what you’ll get if you ask for a basic massage; Shiatsu, or acupressure, features more targeted finger pressure in specific areas.) Go here to find the most experienced certified massage therapists in your area.

Speak up!
Before the massage begins, mention any areas of your body that are feeling sensitive, tight, painful, or tender (like a knot in your neck or an achy spot in your shoulder); these should be treated with particular care, according to Leena Guptha, an osteopathic doctor, a licensed massage therapist, and past president of the American Massage Therapy Association.
Most massage isn’t painful, though moderate pressure—which studies have found is necessary to provide optimal therapeutic benefits—may feel a little uncomfortable, especially if you’re new to massage. Is the pressure too intense? Don’t be shy. Guptha suggests saying something like, “That really hurts. Can you try something different or skip this area?” A good therapist should welcome (or even ask for) your input.

Pick your products
It’s acceptable to bring your own lotion or oil, especially if you have sensitive skin, a sensitive nose, or a condition like eczema or psoriasis. Another option: Ask the therapist to show you her product stash and discuss the options (many are fragrance-free). “There are dozens available for different types of massage, and your therapist should have a variety to choose from,” Guptha says.

Reschedule if you have a cold
“Postpone your massage if you feel a cold or migraine coming on,” Guptha says. “The massage will stimulate your circulation, which could leave you feeling worse.” If you’re a little stuffy or just find it difficult to breathe when lying face-down, ask to lie on your side. An experienced therapist can perform most techniques this way, or she can work on your upper back, neck, and shoulders while you’re in a sitting position.

Period? No problem
There’s no medical reason to avoid a massage during your period, Guptha says. In fact, it can ease PMS symptoms like cramps and backache. But if you’re worried about heavy bleeding, just wait a few days.

Tips to Help you Fall Asleep

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Insomnia is a problem for many people, and the worry about not sleeping can become a problem of its own. Occasional insomnia is common and may be a response to excitement or temporary problems. It will do you no harm as long as you remain reasonably energetic when you’re awake. Also, you may not realize that you need less sleep as you get older, and may think you have insomnia when you can’t get the hours you were used to getting.

If you do feel over tired or too tense to relax, try the following tips. If you don’t get results, consult your physician — it’s possible you may be experiencing anxiety or depression.

Don’t work in bed. If the bedroom is used for paying bills or studying, going to bed can become a signal to become active rather than to go to sleep.

Get some exercise every day so your body feels tired at night.

Try a warm bath before bed. Add Epsom salts if you are achy, or 5–10 drops of lavender or chamomile essential oil if you are stressed.

Make sure your bed is comfortable and that you are not too hot or cold.

Avoid alcohol and caffeine in the evening.

Establish a routine, by going to bed close to the same time every night.

If you aren’t sleeping, get out of bed and stay up until you are tired. The next morning get up at your normal time and try to make it through the day without napping.

A snack before bed helps many people, but a big meal may keep you up as your digestive system works overtime.

Use relaxation techniques such as slow abdominal breathing. Before bed, sit in a comfortable position and breathe slowly, concentrating on filling your belly like a balloon. Continue for up to 5 minutes at a time, but stop if you get dizzy.

Try some gentle floor stretches before bed. Lying down with your feet on the floor and your knees up, lower your knees from side to side. Come back to center, and tilt your pelvis forward and back several times. Slowly turn your head from side to side. Stretch gently and slowly anywhere you feel tight.

Get bodywork. Bodywork can relieve persistent muscle tension. This can help you feel deeply relaxed, and can improve the quality of your sleep the evening of a session and in the following days.