Make your massage a retreat this fall

5 ways to really unwind

It's a busy time of year. Remember your body and mind are wired to need breaks from stress. Here are five ideas to help you turn your massage session into a mini-retreat.

1. Schedule your massage sessions ahead. This can help you avoid being overwhelmed by pre-event anxiety or post-event let down.

2. If possible, sweat in a sauna or soak in a hot tub or herbal bath before your massage to give your muscles a chance to warm and relax. Afterward, sit or lie quietly in the massage room or other quiet space before reentering the world.

3. Don't go back to work or run errands. Go home and avoid the computer and telephone. Lie down, listen to music, or do simple activities such as drawing or folding laundry to keep your mind in a dreamy state.

4. Take a leisurely walk or simply sit by a window with a view of trees, water or a garden. Relax your eyes and focus on the colors and textures of the earthly environment.

5. Before bed the evening after your massage, drink a cup of herb tea such as chamomile or lavender to help you sleep. Sleepytime(R) is a popular commercial tea many people like to help them get a good night's rest.

Less Stress Could Lead to Weight Loss

Check out this interesting article on stress and weight loss. While it points out that massage therapy induces relaxation and reduces stress, it doesn't mention studies that have shown massage to reduce the stress hormone cortisol for up to two weeks.

Less Stress Could Lead to Weight Loss

Tips to Help you Fall Asleep

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Insomnia is a problem for many people, and the worry about not sleeping can become a problem of its own. Occasional insomnia is common and may be a response to excitement or temporary problems. It will do you no harm as long as you remain reasonably energetic when you’re awake. Also, you may not realize that you need less sleep as you get older, and may think you have insomnia when you can’t get the hours you were used to getting.

If you do feel over tired or too tense to relax, try the following tips. If you don’t get results, consult your physician — it’s possible you may be experiencing anxiety or depression.

Don’t work in bed. If the bedroom is used for paying bills or studying, going to bed can become a signal to become active rather than to go to sleep.

Get some exercise every day so your body feels tired at night.

Try a warm bath before bed. Add Epsom salts if you are achy, or 5–10 drops of lavender or chamomile essential oil if you are stressed.

Make sure your bed is comfortable and that you are not too hot or cold.

Avoid alcohol and caffeine in the evening.

Establish a routine, by going to bed close to the same time every night.

If you aren’t sleeping, get out of bed and stay up until you are tired. The next morning get up at your normal time and try to make it through the day without napping.

A snack before bed helps many people, but a big meal may keep you up as your digestive system works overtime.

Use relaxation techniques such as slow abdominal breathing. Before bed, sit in a comfortable position and breathe slowly, concentrating on filling your belly like a balloon. Continue for up to 5 minutes at a time, but stop if you get dizzy.

Try some gentle floor stretches before bed. Lying down with your feet on the floor and your knees up, lower your knees from side to side. Come back to center, and tilt your pelvis forward and back several times. Slowly turn your head from side to side. Stretch gently and slowly anywhere you feel tight.

Get bodywork. Bodywork can relieve persistent muscle tension. This can help you feel deeply relaxed, and can improve the quality of your sleep the evening of a session and in the following days.