The cumulative effects of massage

Aah...you finally got in for your massage. As you relaxed, your headache or low-back pain receded. You also may have noticed your anxieties weren’t hammering at you like they were when the massage began. 

Like many of us, you may have experienced those times when a single massage provided amazing, short-term relief from pain or stress. But as you returned to your normal activities, the chronic pain and tension came creeping back over time, contributing to headaches or flare-ups of fibromyalgia, TMJD or old injuries.

Your chronic discomforts and conditions can actually improve long term with a series of massage sessions. With regular massage, you may also notice that you don’t feel the effects of excess stress as much or that, due to increased body awareness, you use your body in ways that cause less strain. You may observe that your old pain patterns aren’t kicking in to the degree that they used to. Gradually, you may enjoy an increased sense of overall well-being and the awareness of what it feels like to be truly relaxed.

Partnering with your massage therapist

An effective massage requires a partnership. We massage therapists are in charge of giving our clients the best massage possible. And you are in charge of relaxing the best you know how in whatever ways work for you. So we like you to communicate what feels good and what isn’t so great.

1. A lot goes on in a massage session

The first thing that we tend to think of in massage is pressure. Do you sometimes feel like shrinking away from a touch that’s too deep or fast? Do you ever feel frustrated because the technique feels too light or not specific enough? We would love to know so we can adjust to meet your needs. We have a lot of tricks up our sleeve. 

If you are too cold, it is easy to turn up the heat. If you are uncomfortable on the table, you can shift to another position or be supported with extra pillows. If you don’t like an oil or lotion, there is probably something else on hand that you will like better. Would you like the music louder or softer — or turned off completely?  

2. Help yourself relax

Try ignoring concerns about yawning or stomach gurgling. These are expected, even welcomed, during sessions because they are signs you are letting go of tension. 

3. After your massage

You can help extend the benefits for your continued health and relaxation even after your massage. Drink plenty of water. It helps carry away waste products that can be released from your muscles during a massage, and your muscles may feel less sore and fatigued.

If you are a little sore or if the massage didn’t relieve all your aches and pains, take a hot shower or hot bath with Epsom salts when you get home. Don’t forget to relate your experience in your next session, so the pressure can be adjusted if need be. To extend the benefits of your sessions, keep up an exercise program, remembering that you don’t have to be a super athlete. Walking for 30 minutes, taking a tai chi class, or moving to music around your living room keeps your circulation moving and oxygenates your muscles.

Postpone if you're ill!

If you have a fever or an infectious sickness, even a common cold, there is good reason to postpone your appointment. For one thing, you may find that touch does not feel good. Second, your immune system is working hard to control and isolate the infection, and it’s possible massage could hinder this process. Even if massage sounds good to you, some people feel worse after receiving a massage when they are sick. 

There is also a good chance your infection is contagious in the first stages. This is usually when you are feeling the worst, or are coughing and sneezing frequently. The more you limit your contact with others, the less you will spread it around. If you don’t pass a cold to your practitioner, she or he won’t give it to other clients.

When you catch the cold or flu, let yourself rest and drink plenty of liquids. Then enjoy your next massage in good health!

Happy New Year!

It's a new year, and I just want to thank my readers for sticking with me in 2010. I hope to bring you more useful information in 2011. Questions or topic suggestions are welcome!

~Stephanie

Boost your happiness with gratitude

How to reap the benefits of thankfulness

Some people consider the ability to be grateful the key to happiness. Focusing on what you do have instead of what you don’t is basic to the experience of joy. Some of the most grateful people are those who have faced death, maybe because they truly understand the gift of simply being alive. Dawn Nelson was a massage therapist working with the frail and dying when she was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. She writes eloquently about gratitude in her book, Making Friends with Cancer.

“If I cannot get out of bed, I can be thankful for the fact that I am able to turn my head, wriggle my toes, feel the smoothness of silk, smell the fragrance of the roses…. The simple act of noticing what one has to be grateful for has tremendous power over the mind. I use this process to get through difficult moments during my cancer treatment and recovery. I use it to shift my mood when I am feeling ‘down’ or to cope with unpleasant tasks.”

Plan a gratitude session.

1. Get comfortable in a quiet place, inside or out. Turn off the TV and computer and don’t answer your phone.

2. Think about what you have to be thankful for, what and who you cherish. 

3. Silently thank people who have done something for you. 

4. Write a personal wish for someone you are grateful for on a peace of paper. Sit quietly, repeating the wish several times. Then burn the paper, watching the smoke dissipate into the atmosphere.

5. Call or email one of those people to thank them.

Practicing gratitude is a simple way to bring more meaning, joy and satisfaction into your daily life.

Make your massage a retreat this fall

5 ways to really unwind

It’s a busy time of year. Remember your body and mind are wired to need breaks from stress. Here are five ideas to help you turn your massage session into a mini-retreat.

1. Schedule your massage sessions ahead. This can help you avoid being overwhelmed by pre-event anxiety or post-event let down.

 

2. If possible, sweat in a sauna or soak in a hot tub or herbal bath before your massage to give your muscles a chance to warm and relax. Afterward, sit or lie quietly in the massage room or other quiet space before reentering the world.

3. Don’t go back to work or run errands. Go home and avoid the computer and telephone. Lie down, listen to music, or do simple activities such as drawing or folding laundry to keep your mind in a dreamy state. 

4. Take a leisurely walk or simply sit by a window with a view of trees, water or a garden. Relax your eyes and focus on the colors and textures of the earthly environment.

5. Before bed the evening after your massage, drink a cup of herb tea such as chamomile or lavender to help you sleep. Sleepytime® is a popular commercial tea many people like to help them get a good night’s rest.

Aromas for the fall and winter

Enjoy seasonal pleasures, reduce stress

Oranges, cinnamon, apples, cloves. Aromas that bring back memories of cool days, family visits, and days spent cooking and feasting. Not only are these evocative scents enough to make a fall day feel cozy, but the aromas of orange, cinnamon and clove can reduce stress when inhaled. Here are two recipes to enjoy this autumn.

Orange Pomanders

The sweet scent of an orange pomander, a traditional Victorian craft, will fill a home with citrus freshness. Cloves can relieve nasal congestion and improve digestion — a bonus around Thanksgiving.

You’ll need unblemished oranges, a pile of large-headed cloves, and a knitting needle or fork for poking holes. Punch holes in the skin of the orange, inserting cloves as you go. Make stripes or cover the orange completely. 

Now place 1 tablespoon each of ground cinnamon, nutmeg, and cloves in a paper bag and mix. Roll the clove studded orange in the ground spices to coat evenly. Leave the pomander in the bag and store in a cool, dry area for 3–5 weeks to dry. Each day, roll it around in the spices. 

When it’s dry, shake off excess spices. Display in a bowl or hang with a pretty ribbon.

Mulled cider

Come in from the cold to the heady aroma of mulled cider. Cinnamon is another spice said to help the digestive system as well as fatigue.

Add cinnamon sticks, cloves and fresh orange slices to a pot of apple cider. Use whole spices, not ground, to avoid cloudy, gritty cider.

Simmer gently for at least 1/2 hour to allow flavors to infuse. Don’t boil it as it can turn spices bitter. You can keep the pot warm for several hours — a crock pot is ideal.

Serve in mugs garnished with an orange slice or cinnamon stick.